7 Psychological Tricks To Make People Respect You IMMEDIATELY
Earning respect takes time. This is something that you build over years of being honest, having integrity, and showing your character But that said, there’s a couple things that you can do that really do create respect immediately. And that’s why in this video, I want to give you seven things that you can do today to create respect right now. Now, don’t think of these as replacements for actually developing stalwart character. But think of these as guidelines to help get you there.
The first one is defending your time because when people don’t respect your time enough to give you a heads-up when they’re going to be late beforehand and this is a first interaction it means that they likely don’t think very much of you and it’s not gonna go well regardless so just get out of there. And this is very important in dating; defend your time — don’t always be available, don’t sit around waiting for someone to call… Now in friendships and work or any area where you have an ongoing relationship, of course you’ll be late, people will be late and sometimes they might forget to text; it happens. But if it becomes a habitual thing, the right thing to do
0:26 Our first psychological trick, defend your time
1:40 Second trick to get respect is to pause
2:15 Gesticulate and take up space, use body language
3:03 Finish your sentences strongly
4:25 Display social courage
6:36 Share your values
8:40 Call people out on their bad behavior
